Tuesday, April 06, 2004

Oh Tuesday, how I love you

We have no plans on Tuesdays. No where to go, nothing to do but what we want to do. No OT, no Speech, no scouts, no errands, no library. We just stay home. When ZooDad is home, we send him off to work and spend the day just doing fun things. Tuesday is art day. Tuesday is fun project day. Tuesday is Nature Study day. Tuesday is the day I read lots of stories and play games. Tuesday is read what ever interests you day. Tuesday is a no workbook day. None...at all. The only writing is writing done by choice. (And remarkably a lot of writing gets done.) Tuesday is no TV day. Well, the TV is on but thanks to Comcast cable, we listen to music all day...all different kinds of music. No computer games, not even educational ones. Tuesday is not a school day according to J8.

Tueday is no chore day. Except to take out the trash and load and unload the dishwasher. We have Pop-tarts for breaskfast, sandwiches for lunch and ZooDad picks up "cheap pizza", which leaves few dishes to wash. We don't even make the beds.

Tuesday is play outside day. Tuesday is basketball day and sidewalk chalk day and pull your brother around in his wagon day. If it is raining, Tueday is built forts in the house day and make cookies day.

It amazes me how much all of the kids look forward to Tuesday. They enjoy the scheduled unstructure. It gives them a day to just learn about what they want to learn about. It's a fun free feeling.

It also shows me how hard successful unschooling must be. I can do it one day a week, but seven would kill me. I am literally run ragged by the end of the day by all of our "non-school" stuff. Plus there is the general "what if they don't learn what the need' worry that comes to us fledgling unschoolers. I would worry about covering what was needed to know. I would stress about the fact that my 5 year old was still not reading well or that my 8 year old didn[t test as highly as I wanted on last year's ITBS. I would worry myself to sickness and give up.

I just can't release all of that "school must be done" feeling. But I can do it once a week.

~Happy Tuesday!~



Adding***

The boys are currently drawing their own zoo animals for their Zoo ala' Zootycoon. (Which I always read as Zooty Coon for some reason.) Beanie babies of all sorts are placed in various habitats and terrains made out of paper, fabric, and my couch cushions. A2 has 2 large blue jay beanie and 3 teeny beanie blue jays in a nest. My little Apraxic child is telling me to "Sssssssssss, mum" since the "babies seepin."

Sunday, April 04, 2004

14 more days

Fourteen days down and 14 more to go.

My darling hubby and the father of the ZooBoys is away from home on business in Arizona where they aparently do not observe daylight saving time. I'm used to him traveling. He's gone about a quarter of the year every year. The ZooBoys are also used to daddy being gone. It's the only life they have ever known. It doesn't make it any easier though.

So we VTC, email, IM, and call every three hours or so.

He still misses out on stuff. 8 month old SamBoy has started crawling in Daddy's absence. A2 has started drawing pictures of people. J8 and M5 have had some growing boy/sibling rivalry issues that I really need his guidance on.



only 14 more days.

Saturday, April 03, 2004

Searching for Perfection

The end of the school year approaches and I once again begin my quest for perfection...the quest for the perfect curriculum. I'm sure it is out there for other people, but not for me.

I've looked at Calvert. I am very impressed with it and I should be considering the price. But since the exclusive secular private school here is 10k a year...600 bucks is a bargain. I don't want to give up the things that I do enjoy using though and I don't want to pay all that money and not use the program.

Once again I reach the proverbial Rock and Hard place.

What works?

Spelling workout for one. J8 loves it. He can teach himself, which I also enjoy. I also appreciate that groups list words by phonetic rules. I also like the writing assignments and proofreading exercises. We'll be using level D next year.

Story of the World is another winner. We're plugging our way through book one but we are loving it. I really enjoy this history program. I hope it doesn't let me down on American History though.

Grammar is up in the air. I'm trying to determine if we will use the McGraw-Hill book again, a textbook again, or Primary Language lessons. I just don't know yet. I keep hearing how Abeka grammar is great and how Rod and Staff English in fabulous. I've looked through those. The religion is pervasive. Though I am spiritual...I am not religious. I just don't see why God need to be involved in teaching sentence structure.

Writing Strands is on the list for creative writing although it probably isn't needed. J8 writes constantly. He comes up with stories, poetry, and even comic books on his own. Let's just say that he's an 8 year old Steven King in producing works of writing. M5 is just getting into the idea of writing. I fear that he might end up as prolific as his older brother.

Math is another area of contention. We've been using MCP math, but I fear there are holes in our math education. I'm not quite committed to somthing as involved as Math-U-See however. I'd do Rod and Staff but for previously stated objections. Horizons and Abeka are also cautious ideas. I may just splurge on Calvert Math and call it a day.

Reading is an easy one. J8 read several books a week. We'll just start doing some book reports. Of course that means that I'll have to read the same books to make up some lessons. I hope I can keep up with him. LOL

Science is going to be the main issue. There's nothing on the market but Creation Science and I just can not do Creation Science. It is not going to happen. I just don't see why I can't be Christian and think Darwin was on to something. I don't see the two ideas as mutually exclusive. So I am writing my own Chemisty and Earth Science plans. The hard part is going to be finding a spine. Heck, I spent 4 years writing science lesson plans for other people's children. I think I can manage to come up with a hard science program for my own flesh and blood. If I do come up with a hqard plan, we'll just flit about like we have bee doing. Hmmmmm....maybe fliting about *is* the plan. The only problem is that the zoo boys will end up heavy on biology, chemistry, and physical science and light space science, geology, and physics.

So those are the major plans. There is more to be filled in. Spanish and Logic are decided. Handwriting is up in the air since we have yet to introduce cursive. (My oldest is only a second grader so I'm not too late.) M5 will be a kindy next year but he'll be doing 1st grade work and doing SOTW and Science with his older brother...so that won't require additional planning.

Now to just keep away from the Sonlight Catalog. For some strange reason, I am drawn to it like a moth to a flame.